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Can i forgive such betrayal?

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young ugs asked:

I really thought my g/f loved me but events on a recent holiday have left me unsure.

We were due to return from a holiday in Peru and i had two condoms stuffed with cocaine, one for each of us to swallow and smuggle home. She outright refused and i had to leave her cocaine condom behind.

Never in my life have i felt so betrayed by a woman who supposedly “loves me”.

Everytime i see her face i cant help think of the quality gear we left behind us. I feel so betrayed and i am not sure i will ever learn to forgive her.

Should i just end it now and spare myself the future heartache that is inevitable with a woman who has no grasp of what it is to TRULY love her man?

48 Comments

  1. brian_music_football says:

    Are you for real !!!!

  2. bjhvolleyballgal says:

    are you joking
    why are you smuggling drugs
    and no you shouldn’t dump her because she won’t to something ILLEGAL for you
    gosh

  3. aries24 says:

    Please do end it. She will be so much better off without you and she deserves way better.

  4. cactusone says:

    get real, love is not about drugs. jail time would prove to you that she loves you, but she will learn you don’t love her, just cocaine. let her find a real man
    f-n loser

  5. Rick D says:

    Son your misguided, confused and plain stupid.

    The fact she refused shows how much class she has and lack
    that you show. She should dump your sorry soul before its too late. You are a loser. I hope she has dumped you for betraying you. You care more about cocaine than her.

    You are one sorry punk

  6. calicmc9 says:

    you feel betrayed because she wouldn’t smuggle drugs?
    are you serious…she should leave you for you trying to force her too
    if she felt it was wrong thats not betraying you in anyway
    i don’t get how her bringing drugs home is her truely loving you..

  7. devinalexsmom says:

    I think you have it wrong! If you truly loved her you would have never tried to make her do something like that anyways. She should dump you and find a man that will respect her enough to not put her in danger of going to prison.

  8. Worlds Biggest St. Helens Fan says:

    She deserves someone better than you.

  9. bradnjaz says:

    Truly loving your man is not about smuggling illegal drugs, what if you get caught? I am sure that is what she was afraid of. How are you suppose to be together in jail??? I think what she did was right and had no intention of hurting your feelings. Don’t take it so personal, if you really love her, you might not realise what you have till its gone.

  10. laracroft1979uk says:

    Please End it, She is a hell of alot better off without you. I can understand why she didn’t want to. Are you trying to kill her

  11. catalina r says:

    First of all why would you put both of your business out there. maybe the betrayer is you i wouldn’t do it either. I think she right.

  12. K says:

    lol
    Swallowing? If I was you, I wouldn’t trust latex and hydrochloric acid. But that’s me.

  13. Danger mouse says:

    well the best people to ask for advice is at you local police station and im very sure they will very willing to help you

  14. on the wagon says:

    sling the slapper,
    next time take a real donkey,
    not some bint who looks like one

  15. mcfifi says:

    RAFLMAO!

    Can’t believe all this sound relationship advice you’re getting…….seems to be a humour gap going on.

    PS Stay away from Peru – dangerous place.

    (Help, I’m doing it too now!)

  16. Trebbleclef says:

    Yes, you should end it now. Not because she doesn’t love you.. but because you do not love her.

    Why in the world would you ask the woman you “love” to do something illegal and then be angry at her for having morals?

    If she has not called you to break up with you, you should do her the favor and break up with her. That will save her the trips to visit you in jail when you finally are caught in your illegal activities.

  17. zart says:

    If you really loved her you never would have asked her to do it.
    You should ask yourself if you really have the grasp of what it is to TRULY love someone more than cocaine.

  18. welshchick says:

    dump her if i was you!
    what a waste:(
    pack her undies in a condom and show her the door!

  19. Lumper35 says:

    If you think that is love you deserve a broken heart, who the hell do you think you are to even ask a woman to think about something like that, if that’s you life you need to keep searching for a woman that will let you get away with it, if shows she is more of a man than you will ever be,, you need to grow up BOY,,, get real in your life????????????,,, if your life revolves around drugs you need to stop and think about you and not her,, i hope this helps and brings you around ,,, good luck.

  20. cookingmaria says:

    Are you nuts. You can’t be serious. How can any man rationalize that his g/f betrayed him by not wanting to commit a crime for him. Everything you wrote made me disgusted. You are a loser and probably have an angle by your side and do not even appreciate her.. You probably brought her on Holiday with you with the intention of helping you bring back those stupid drugs. I am sure it was for no other reason but that and She probably had no clue what you up to. I am so glad she refused so.. I am sure she was not even aware what you were up to and planning for her. If she refused you there, she would have refused you here if she knew.. It would have been awful for you right, you would have lost your “Crime Help”. So you brought her along making her believe you were taking her on vaction when all along you had her there for your own selfish reason. Poor Child. Imagine how she must feel, she must feel tremenously betrayed by you.. and you come here saying you feel she betrayed you.. Disgusting..You betrayed her. Got it.. You betrated her.. You probably brought this person because she told you she loves you and that to you was like a gold-mine, if she loved you she would do anything for you.. like commit a crime.. Boy, you are a fool..and I pray you go get some help. You need help..If you want to do something decent in your life give the girl a break and leave her in peace away from your destruction.
    If you leave her it might be the best thing you have done in your entire life.. give the girl a break. Let her fine a decent man that will love her truly for herself not some stupid cocaine..

  21. Daniel J says:

    You carry on how your going and you will get plenty of true love in jail what if u had made her do it and the condom burst killing her? I agree u should end it and spend the rest of your junkie days alone

  22. ANDREW H says:

    Forget her she is a real Bitch

  23. Martin B says:

    Get a girlfriend who cares about you next time. what a dog.

  24. teenie says:

    WELL-SON-OF A-B I T C H What are you going to do with a girl like that .I would be mad at her to just think of all that good s h i t she left behind. PEACE!

  25. ferretlovesscarhead says:

    YOU. FEEL. B*E*T*R*A*Y*E*D????????????? god you are SUCH a bloody GIT. for just 10 seconds put yourself in her place. hello??? she might have different beliefs about drugs, or maybe she just wants to stay on the LEGAL side of things. hmmm ever thought of that????? she’s probably beating herself up right now because she thought that she understood you but u turned out to be a SUPERFICIAL IDIOT who thinks that if theyre gf doesnt do drugs with them then she doesnt love them. well HELL of COURSE she’s gonna be f*cking pissed at you for trying to pressure her into something. if anyone it should be HER whos feeling betrayed. she does not deserve a wanker like you. ****** off.

  26. charlotte says:

    That is one of the most selfish questions I have ever read.

    I’m supposing you didn’t swallow both in case they burst.

    If I was your g/f I would have already left you for not just asking but expecting me to risk our future together over drugs.

    You seem really annoyed and hurt by this. I’m glad she refused you. What are you gonna pressure her to do next? If she says no to *** or working the streets for you are you gonna threaten to dump her and question her love for you? How mad are you gonna get if she says no again?

    Get help!

    Dont smugle or take drugs, they poison lives and minds xxxx

  27. anubha b says:

    sir first of all i would like to know what your age is . If u r a kid then taking all that cocain and con…….. was a very shameless thing u did because this is your age to think about ur carrer ur bright future u must b thinking that what is wrong in this every one does this in our country , this is the difference between u foreigners and we Indians we know what to do and when to do now if v r kids v would never do such things v give first priority to our carrer. Suppose my aim is to become a doctor , I shall not be able to see anything except my ultimate goal . This is the reason why u all r lagging behind in such a tough competition with us (Indians) . so just forget her and look after ur carrer . U must not think of anything else untill u achieve your goal ( aim)
    and now if u r an adult so pls forgive her because she refused just to not to smuggle cocain she did not refuse u . LOve does not see cast ,creed , refusal or anything . If u really love her u will not be able to live without her if u think so pls forgive her what is the blunder she did? i dont think its such a blunder .and pls dont use the word” betrayal” for her a person is betreyal only when he /she plays withs ur immotions or really hurts u what has she done i dont think such a big mistake is that . love and freindship will never b gained again once u refuse it your love is like a glass piece , once broken cannot be made as before once again if however the broken pieces r pasted again cracks appear on it . so never let your love be less for her otherwise cracks may appear on it.
    CHEER UP MAN

  28. v says:

    oh what a bitch

  29. sandra F says:

    if your telling the truth which i don’t believe you are then your a complete idiot probably one of the biggest idiots ever but as I think you are lieing why don’t you grow up and ask a proper question clown………………

  30. Ellie L says:

    Poor girl….she must regret……………..
    Having wasted anytime on you…. though i don’t believe this tripe for one second. If it is, and you decide to do it again why not swallow both, and then we can all watch and wait to see how you cope with it when it splits!!

  31. cyfcupcake says:

    LOL – made me chuckle anyway

  32. MICHELLE says:

    knobhead!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  33. Angie's-Angel-Eyes says:

    all i can say is go girl ……lol and shame on you

  34. sandy f says:

    IDIOT NOTHING ELSE TO SAY YOU DON’T DESERVE MY TIME

  35. picklechick says:

    Sorry m8,i cant stop laughing,either you are a complete MUG or are totally naiive.Would you fly to Peru to visit her if she got caught and was banged up?
    Your girl has a brain,stop whining.

  36. fajita says:

    U will end up in jail or dead.

  37. canteloupesweet says:

    She did the right thing.Why should she risk her reputation and jail because you want to do something illegal.Do her a favour and let her go,she deserves a better man than this.This certainly is not love just plain stupid.

  38. Jugular says:

    Souldn’t we really be asking why any self-respecting man would date a mule?

  39. Jazzmine says:

    You really are SICK.!You expect a decent woman to eat cocaine just because you say so. I mean it’s COCAINE. I say RIGHT ON GIRL!!! You just put shame on the male reputation

  40. need to know says:

    dude, she is in the right. you should not be doin drugs in the first place. go to rehab druggie

  41. Bella61 says:

    What?? Are you nuts, go and get a real job and set this lady free, at least one of you is thinking straight.

  42. stephen a says:

    please get real,you must be a really nice person to ask someone to do some thing like that,hope you o.d

  43. carperfuzz says:

    I find it really hard to believe that this question is even for real. I think that you should leave her; she’ll be better off.

  44. LIZ G says:

    I suggest that you should get a brand new brain filled with common sense!!!!!

    It’s a shame on you that ordered ur gf to do such thing!

  45. Minxy says:

    I don,t believe you. Thanks for the points though!

  46. Ollie says:

    If I was your girlfriend you would be kicked to the kerb.You feel betrayed your having a laugh.

  47. yummy_mummy says:

    lol yeah dump her..if she couldnt do that for you she’s not worth it! your better off with someone who truely loves you and not just use your gear and then let you take all responsibilities of getting it!
    selfish b**ch!!
    for people that answered seriously,this is obviously a joke to get your reaction….so relax!!!
    (well at least i hope it is lol)

  48. chelko says:

    Some people will say anything to get a response. I know this is a load of bull because anyone who knows the “true” meaning of love would have been embarrassed to even TELL that story.
    GET A CLUE !!

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