darkangel10 asked:

When i younger there was this beaitiful girl with brownish hair light skin complexion. she was very pretty okay, so anyways as we attended the same elementary school i noticed her even though i sat in the back. and well one day i thought id try and talk to her it was hard cause she would leave quickly and i was very shy. one day me and my friend jaime were walking he is a guy btw lol weird in english i know! anyhow i see her walking home! and i though id try and talk to her and kinda followed her to talk to her. i never heard her voice and i was curious. well even though iwas really nervous i was really close to talk to her when i got distracted by a noise in the woods wasteland looked kinda. FOR a second and next thing i know she makes a turn and she was GONE. iwas so blown all that work to build up courage. iwas young like 5 or 6 so it6 was HARD. many years have passed by and i look back and rememeber and wish i had said hi in THAT moment and got a white flower from somewhere and given it to her and smiled at her and introduced myself. tears lol hahaha anyways things happen but she the only girl from my childhood in my counrty i remmber(peru) anyways i need to write about it explaining how it changed my view on the world withoput making it too personal. is it good. i though maybe saying “you shoul;d take your opportunities and live in the moment for it is this moment that is YOUR LIFE.”
GOOD ?

alexandra ambrosio asked:

before i left for peru for 3 weeks, a relationship was starting between me and a guy, but when i went to peru, i met a new guy from another city that changed me. he has inspired me to many things, one of which is to open up more to God. nothing happened with him and nothing will because its long distance. i dont know if he even felt the connection. now i dont like the guy at home and i dont even want to talk to him, but he’s texting me. help? thanks also i learned from the long distance guy how i should be treated and how a guy should make me feel. i dont feel this with the current guy, not that he’s ever done anything- he’s very nice.

alexandra ambrosio asked:

before i left for peru for 3 weeks, a relationship was starting between me and a guy, but when i went to peru, i met a new guy from another city that changed me. he has inspired me to many things, one of which is to open up more to God. now i dont like the guy at home and i dont even want to talk to him, but he’s texting me. help? thanks

Drumminnerd asked:

I’ve been going out with her for 2 years (anniversary is in a week), but things between me and her have been kinda odd over the past month or two. We are very open about it – we address that something is up and maybe we should be in a looser relationship, but nothing (except for more bickering) has really changed. Just today she came home from a 10 day Peru trip and we both admitted that we didn’t really miss each other. We were hanging out and, no surprise, we were bickering again. I feel like, whenever I feel negatively about something, I need to **** it up. Anytime I tell her that I am sad or hurt she claims that I am being annoying or (and she actually has said this) a “whiny woman.”
I’m not going to explain the beginning and evolution of our relationship, I just want to know how to deal with this. I don’t know if I can stay with her if she keeps treating me like this, even though I feel like I can’t leave her for some reason. I can’ tell if I really love her. Part of me wants to stay with her because, honestly, I don’t really have any friends that I hang out – I’m afraid of feeling lonely, which I definitely would if I left her.
The other thing is, even if I was all serious and completely told her that we’re over, I know she either wouldn’t completely take it seriously, mock me, or accept it but still call me later or something and act like we should stay together and I’m just ignoring her.

I DON’T KNOW WHAT TO DO!!!

latinosyracuse asked:

Okay so here’s a little background information on me. I was adopted from Peru when I was only a couple months old to a 17 year old woman named Nancy. My father never knew that I was born because she didn’t tell him. I was adopted by a white family, my adopted father later left my mother and I. Growing up I always had close friends but not huge number of friends. I still to this day have preferred time to myself. When I started dating, which was freshman year, I dated this girl named Emily who was aggressive and had dominate personality. I really did like her but i never did anything with her because to be honest I was afraid of her. She broke up with me after a month, I think I had been a rebound for her for either her ex bf or his other guy she had a thing for right before we dated. Next I dated my friends sister who, I had a thing for ever since I met her. We didn’t do anything either it only lasted a couple days but she was a **** and didn’t want to have a boyfriend and just wanted to hook up with guys. I love the last thing she said to me before we broke up was that we could still hook up if I wanted. Next I dated my friends girlfriend who I had wanted to date but since my friends had made fun of her I told her I didn’t like her. So here’s the story there, she had this best friend named Lindsay who was dating my friend David. Emily and David became hooking up behind Lindsay’s back and everyone found out. Emily and David began dating not long after. Since David was my best friend I wanted to be friends with Emily again. In the possible I fell for her and she confined in me the problems she had especially with cutting herself. David really didn’t care if she cut herself or not, he just wanted to be physical with her. One day we went to the movies which we did every Friday or every other Friday which we called A&E days. She sat in my lap when we were waiting outside. And I held her and kissed her head. Unlike what everyone thought I didn’t kiss her on her lips. She finally left him and we dated for 4 months which were the best of times. She was the first girl I ever kissed. We had *** twice but she was always hesitate about doing physical stuff. So around the beginning of junior year I found out she had cheated on me with David and we broke up. They got back together a week later. Junior year was hell I spent about one day a week at home because of on going back issues. My grades slipped and I hated my life. Thought about killing myself every day and tried a bunch of times but I wasn’t ever able to do it. I dated a couple other girls like Emma, Kate and hooked up with a girl named Claire after that. But I feel in love with this adopted Peruvian girl who I’m not gonna say her name. I started talking to her online when I was 17 and she was 16, she had dated my friend who lived in Atlanta. During the summer of 2008 we decided to date each other and we were gonna stay committed even though we had never met or couldn’t see each other. We were gonna meet up and see what happened. She has cheated on me with her ex boyfriend, Ben, a family friend named, Alexander, some guy that she hooked up with at a party, and this guy named Corey. We started “dating” in June, we finally met in February of 2009 because I had commitments in college that made it had to go down to Atlanta. When we met it was in secret her parents were out of town and we spent Valentines Day together. I met her parents a month ago and I would like to think everything is okay. Yet its hard to believe her because she has so easily tried to move on and has “cheated” I guess it depends if you think we were dating or not. I love her but to be honest she scares me because of how much I actually care about her. Today she was all depressed, and at lunch time she told me to call her which I did but she never called back. Her excuse was I made a new friend and I went to his/her house and didn’t want to be rude and call/text while there but even after she got back she still didn’t text me. I think she’s cheating on me. Honestly what the **** is wrong with me. Why can’t I trust?

alexandra ambrosio asked:

before i left for peru for 3 weeks, a relationship was starting between me and a guy, but when i went to peru, i met a new guy from another city that changed me. he has inspired me to many things, one of which is to open up more to God. nothing happened with him and nothing will because its long distance. i dont know if he even felt the connection. now i dont like the guy at home and i dont even want to talk to him, but he’s texting me. help? thanks

tdee1984 asked:

I have a friend who i met online about 2 months ago. He was really interested in me but i kind messed things up after i misunderstood his signals (he seemed uninterested). I have been trying recently to kinda get that interest going again but feel like it’s been a disaster after the other. Last week we went out just the two of us and he started saying really weird things about wanting to get married in peru, and buying a one way ticket there etc etc… towards the end of our meeting he said a couple of other things and this made me conclude that he was talking about getting married to a 19yr old he met on facebook who lives in peru, someone he’s never met! i was totally shocked at his immaturity so i laughed in his face and he was clearly upset about it. when i got home i texted him saying i couldnt believe he would have told me something like that and that he had once again messed things up. he replied asking whether I had forgotten to say something which i took as him being sarcastic and just called him immature.
I felt like he was trying to get back at me somehow and was quite upset however I am wondering whether once i had sent him these msgs it became obvious to him i wanted something more? I know he sounds like a dickhead lol but he’s actually not. He’s a decent guy but the whole idea of him actually thinking about marrying such a young girl he’s never met is ridiculous and I can’t believe that he’s serious. could he be trying to get back at me? We’re nearlly 25 tthanks

sugarlipxxx asked:

Hello everyone this is a bit long, but I hope you all have the patient to read and help me please.

I started going out with this a boy more than a week ago. He works at the same place as my mum and everyone at their work place knows me and think that I’m beautiful so this boy James, asked my mum for my number. We started the texting and calling each other very often and went on a date.

First time he saw me, he kept saying how beautiful I was and everything. We went cinema, where we kissed and then we went clubbing for a drink. It was a fun night. I didn’t wanna have *** with him, as it was out first date but end up almost having *** at my stairs.

Anyways, we spoke about our past relationships and he told me he went out with this girls for 2 yrs and they broke up a month ago and after that he met a girl from PERU, and he took her out a couple of times, but he wasn’t intested as she can’t speak english very well and etc… he shows me a picture of her and deleted in front of me.

In our first date he kept saying that he liekd me so much that he would marry me one day lol. He was SO sweet.

The next day we were spose to meet up but he had to go and see his nan so we went out on sunday intestead. We went to this bar and on our way back home I asked him ‘when are you gonna ask me out?’ and he said ‘now’.

The next day my mum went back to work from her holidays. She called me saying that one of her collegues told her that she qwas going out with JAMES (my boyfriend). I went mad and called him. He told me she was the girl from PERU that he told me about and that he wasn’t going out with her, but was gonna call her and let her know that. I spoke to this girl ont he phone adn she wasnt very upset. She was nice and told me that she wasnt going to talk to him anymore.

Anyways I forgave him coz deep down I wasnt so upset.

I went to see him this tuesday and we had fun. He always sayin that im beautiful and how luck he is to be with me. On friday we were spose to go to a hotel but we went to his friends house instead where he lives aswell. I met this closest friends and I had *** with him. It was lovely. He was always sweet and gentle.

On saturday he texted me in the morning so I called him and he said he would call me later to see if I wanted to go out, I called him twice and he wouldt aswer my calls then 2 hours later he called me and said he was sleeping. I went to see him yestersday and again we had ***.

The problem is that we were making plans to spend new years together and today I texted him he didn’t text back, so I called him and he was nie on the phone but said he wasn’t sure if we was going to be with me on new years coz his friend got him a ticket to go clubbing. He didnt invite me to go with him. He said he will try to sell the ticket. He also said he will let me know.

Why is acting like this?? He is very sweet everytime I see him, but why is he taking long to text me?? Not calling as often?? And now he doesnt even wanna spend new years with me? What sould I do if he doesnt come??

What you guys think?

THANKS

Luna asked:

Hey…. let me start by saying that I feel dumb, clueless, humiliated, and horrified that I am even asking this, especially to the internet, but I need help. If you have nothing nice to say, then leave. If you want to be mean why read the whole thing anyway?

So my best friend since 2nd grade is in love with this guy, she has been for three years. My friend and I have spent every second together, we are like twins. Her mom treats me like a second daughter, we go on all of our family vacations together, and we tell each other everything. She met this guy through one of my friends, I happened to be hanging out with her and my best friend was with me, and when he walked in the room and she saw him for the first time you could see that it was love at first sight (for her.) Her face lit up and she tuned red, and her mouth hung open and when he said “Hi!” She said, “Hghphphphphp…..” I must admit, he is…. very attractive. Since we met him we have both got to know him very well. He is funny, polite, and perfect for her and me. Over the summer, he called and asked me on a date. I wasn’t there so he left a message. I was in Peru (with my best friend) and I didn’t use my phone, so when I got home a month later I got the message and didn’t tell my friend. I never talked to him about it either. So we all just pretended like nothing happened. At the time I didn’t like him, but lately I have realized what a blessing he is and how I don’t want to let him go. Ever.

And here begins the time where I fell in love with him. I didn’t tell my friend, and it was painful the way she would talk about him and her together. I don’t blame her though, she didn’t know. When people asked him if he ever wanted to get together with my friend, he would say “She is more like a sister to me, I could never.” For the past few months I haven’t said anything to anyone, not even the web, until today when we went to a movie. One of his guy friends was supposed to come but he canceled last minute, and it was just us. So as we watched “Gran Torino” (great movie, by the way) it was very hard to not just start making out with him. The whole theater was full and the seats were small, so we had to sit cramped next to each other. Every time he smiles at me I melt. Every time his hand brushes up against me, I practically have an ******. (No joke! Ha!) So he is sitting by this hugely obese woman and when some scary scene popped up, she jumped out of her seat, causing him to fall into me. He grabbed my waist in the process, and I swear to god I almost fainted. He looked up at me with his amazing blue eyes and smiled, saying “I-I’m sorry…. hahaha….” very nervously. I just sat there trying not to have an ****** lasting more that three hours. I can’t take it anymore. I just want to find him and make out with him….

HELP!

alexandra ambrosio asked:

before i left for peru for 3 weeks, a relationship was starting between me and a guy, but when i went to peru, i met a new guy from another city that changed me. he has inspired me to many things, one of which is to open up more to God. now i dont like the guy at home and i dont even want to talk to him, but he’s texting me. help? thanks