Sh** Talk Express asked:

So I like this girl and she likes me (I think) I asked her out, and she said yes. She’s from peru and mostly speaks spanish, some english. Does anyone know of the peruvian customs, how they act/etiquette etc…anything cute I can do for her, say to her, to remind her of home.

thank you

jonjim33 asked:

Now, I’ve just started working at a small business that is owned by my parents about 2 months ago, and I only go about 3 times a week. So the same day I started working there it was also this new girl’s first day. at first I couldn’t tell if she was interested, but now I think she’s pretty interested. How do I know?

She seems to enjoy talking to me whenever I talk to her. Also, I saw her yesterday after a week of not seeing her because I’ve been absent from work and she got a big smile on her face when I showed up yesterday after a week and looked right at me and greeted me as I was walking in to work even though she was talking to a client. She usually just finishes what she does, with me walking right past her when I go in for work, and greets me after I greet her.

Also, I asked her yesterday morning how her thanksgiving went and she briefly said “just fine thanks” and that was it. Then about a few hours later after my mom (who is her boss) left for the restroom she asked how my Thanksgiving went. Then she gleefully told me how she went to a Peruvian restaurant for the first time this past weekend (my parents are from Peru, which she knows, and she’s Mexican) and how she tried lots of different foods for the first time and liked it. But she just stopped talking right when my mom walked in.

I’ve thought about asking her out for coffee but I can’t really do that because she takes her break in the break room which is right next door to my mom’s office and she definitely does not want my mom to see/hear us talking. She has demonstrated this every time we’re having a conversation and she just abruptly stops talking if my mom walks in the room. But she’ll talk to me if my mom steps out for the restroom or something.

Now I’ve never dated someone from work, let alone at where I work now since my mom is usually present. So my question are: how do I ask her out and do I tell my mom? She is 20 and I’m 22 if that helps.

Oh, and I sometimes see her on Saturdays( my mom always stays home on the weekends) to do some work. Would a Saturday be a good time to ask her out?

alexandra ambrosio asked:

before i left for peru for 3 weeks, a relationship was starting between me and a guy, but when i went to peru, i met a new guy from another city that changed me. he has inspired me to many things, one of which is to open up more to God. now i dont like the guy at home and i dont even want to talk to him, but he’s texting me. help? thanks

Sophia asked:

True Love
Once there was a young girl. Her name was Aldofina. She lived in Peru. One day she was out for a walk when she ran in to a very handsome young man, they’re eyes met. He was the first to speak. He said how sorry he was for running in to her, he asked what her name was and she told him. He said that his name was Diego. They started walking and while they walked they found out how much they had in common. They walked for hours. They were having so much fun that they forgot what time it was and Aldofina said good bye to Diego. They arranged a time when they could see each other again. As Aldofina walked home she was thinking about how much fun she had. She was so caught up in her thoughts that she didn’t know where she was. Suddenly, she heard a noise behind her, she looked, she saw nothing so she turned around and started running. She ran faster and faster, she was so scared then finally she saw lights so she ran for them. She finally reached town and she ran all the way home.
When she got home she told her mom about everything that had happened to her. Then she went to her room and talked to her little sister, Carmen, who’s 12, everything about Diego. Carmen was so excited for her sister. Just then their little sister and brother ran in. They’re names are Dominga and Domingo and they are twins. They are 6 years old. They wanted to hear what happened too. As she was telling the story they all fell asleep. The next day Aldofina went to see her best friend, Ofelia, she also told her about Diego. Then she told her that she had to go and meet Diego again. Since she was late she ran to where she was supposed to meet him. When she got there he was waiting. He greeted her with a “Hello Aldofina” Aldofina said “Hey Diego” and they started walking together. As they walked they found a little kitten. They named her Bama. They carried the kitten and said that they would keep her forever. As they were walking they talked some more. They watched the sun set and while
they were watching it Diego leaned over and kissed her. It was the most passionate kiss ever. After that he walked her home and she introduced him to her family. A couple months later he asked her to marry him and she said yes. They got married and had four darling children, two boys and two girls. Their names were Capac, Huayna, Valentina, and Ximena. They all lived happily ever after.

The End

Kat asked:

here’s the situation… i met my bf about a yr 1/2 ago in peru… about a week after we met i told myself that this was the guy i was going to marry (God knows why) without saying anything to anyone, i later find out from my mom that before she married my dad, when she first saw him, she had a vision that she was going to marry him… i thought it was really freaky when she told me this… the thing is, i just got back from living with him for 6 months and one day, i got really scared bc i felt like he wasn’t really the one for me… that same day i was sitting outside our apt. and this old lady (who owned the building) asked me if i was ok… i said i was fine and she asked me if i was here with my family… i said no i live with my bf… and she asked who it was and i told her his name… and she said he’s a great guy… after that, i felt fine… and i felt like that was a sign… well as time went on, we fought a lot, had a lot of trust issues…. we fought so bad once that i thought i was going to go home sooner…. but i just begged him to stay with me… i really didn’t want to leave him… the reason i am confused out of my mind is bc we are 2 completely different people… but at the same time i just feel like there is always something keeping us together… i feel like i’m battling with what i want and fate… (i don’t know what i want) maybe we are meant to be… who knows…… please give me your thoughts on this, thanks!

Anonymous Writer asked:

Hello everyone!

First of all sorry about my bad English, I’m originally from Peru.

I’m a 20 years old (I just turned 20 on October) boy with a physical disability, I use a wheelchair most of the time but I’m able to move and feel my entry body. I have a genetic disorder called “Osteogenesis Imperfecta” that makes my bones weak. I just wanted to mention this so you can consider this information when you want to give a reply.

I really don’t want to make this too long but I need to give details about what happened and I will thank you if you take a minute of your time to read my problem.

I graduated from High School few months ago and I started College three months ago, next week will be my second semester in College. My story begins when I met a 21 years Lithuanian girl at College when I was taking my first semester, everything started to fast and after three weeks we “fall in love”. This girl moved to America with her family six months ago.

Note: This girl doesn’t have any physical disability.

I wasn’t able to see her too often as I would like to because I can’t drive yet and also because she lives a bit far away from me (30 minutes). At College we were able to see each other more often but after the first semester I was only able to see her two times a week. We shared many beautiful things; we spent time together at the Mall or my house. We also spent a really good time in Christmas but somehow we stop to text or call each other, I was waiting for her to call and she was waiting for me to call too.

On New Year’s night I was invited to a party and I texted her to see if she would like to come with me because sometimes she need to work until late, so she said she have to work until late. I went to the party and I was drinking some beers and one of my friends (a guy) texted her saying “He is busy now, who are you?”. She thought it was a girl and she begin to think I found somebody else, from that night she started to ignore me or treat me differently, she won’t pick up the phone or text me back so I went to her job (a liquor store) and tried to speak to her but she was mad at me, she even asked me for my ID to enter the place and in front of everyone she told me that our relationship was over.

After she asked me for my ID at her job I was upset so I told my friends to go to a party and she heard me, inside the car I decided to go home and not go to any party. Two days after this incident I was using the Internet and she texted me saying that she can’t be with me anymore because she doesn’t trust me anymore and she also said that, the first night I went to her job she went to a party after and kissed a guy and was almost to makeup with him. When she said this, she really hurt me, I don’t know what to do… today I went to her job with my mom and the guy who texted her so she can listen and see that I never cheat on her, I went to her job today to know the true if she really did this to me or if she was just mad at me and want to hurt me. She confessed that she really kissed another guy at the party and was about to makeup.

The guy who texted her from my phone confessed the true and now she knows the true, now she knows that I never cheat on her no even a kiss with another girl but I don’t know if I should continue with her? I feel I love her but I don’t know I could handle this, I don’t know if I will be “Ok” to see her next time and remember about what happened. Now I really feel embarrass, some of my friends know what that she cheat on my and I don’t know if I should give her another chance or just end this now.

I will appreciate your answers.
I just wanted to mention that this girl said that she cheated on me because she was also hurt by thinking that i found somebody else. I really think this girl has some personal issues.

What do you guys think?

Jessica S asked:

well, here goes. at sixteen, i was in a terrible relationship with an 18 year old boy. he was terribly jealous and controlling. we lived with my mother who was in an abusive relationship with some redneck, and they were using meth. due to my own inability to say no, i became pregnant. mom and bf got in a fight, and he was kicked out. i was upset too, and i went to stay with my sister and her child and husband for a month or so. i broke up with bf, thank god. mom still did not know that i was pregnant, but my sister did know. i ended up meeting a wonderful man that my sister worked with, a 26 year old peruvian man. he was not like the guys i had known. we became involved and soon i returned to my mothers and we stayed together. well, he was an illegal. we moved in together and he became daddy to my beautiful little girl. my ex sent letters but never offered to help, so i did not speak to him.

the following year, when my child was around nine months old, the peruvian man was deported. i joined him in peru and have now been in peru for ayear and three months, while we wait for paperwork to decide whether he can return or not. i have decided to return home, no matter what, and am considering doing it now. the problem is, my daugther is two and a half, and he is her daddy, and they love each other. and my mom says she is not doing drugs, but she is still occasionally seeing the abusive man. i would have to stay with my mom if i return. well, basically, i am sad and upset and dont know what to do. i am nineteen.

well peru is alright, though dangerous. i do not want to stay here forever. i have been waiting on pins and needles for three months waiting to get an answer, and now i have to wait more. our relationship is deteriorating due to stress. i want to go home but if the paperwork came soon, like in two weeks, i would be fine.
the abusive man has never been anything but cordial to me. his abuse to my mother has been pulling her hair, flinging her around, and once banging her head on a wall. but they are not living together, they have a court order not to be together, if seen together they will both go to jail. she sneaks out to see him see him sometimes, she says.
me and the peruvian man have been together for three years, and it has been great, for the most part, not counting all the stress from deportation and now the waiting in limbo. i love him and he loves me and my daughter especially.

alexandra ambrosio asked:

before i left for peru for 3 weeks, a relationship was starting between me and a guy, but when i went to peru, i met a new guy from another city that changed me. although i felt strongly about him, nothing happened. he has inspired me to many things, one of which is to open up more to God. now i dont like the guy at home and i dont even want to talk to him, but he’s texting me. help? thanks

cmadiej asked:

So…Me and my boyfriend of almost 3 years is leaving, me and him have had a ROCKY road, but have managed to make it this far. We have broken up in that time for a period of 8 months realized we still cared for each other, got close again and got back together. Its been 10 months since then.

He is leaving to Costa Rica for 3 months and then traveling to Peru and Panama for another 2 months, on a surf extravaganza.

He has had this planned since August of 2008.
We both agreed that when he leaves we are ending the relationship, he doesn’t want me waiting for him and I don’t want to wait/put my life on hold. We both don’t know what’s going to happen when he gets back. if we will be together or not.

He leaves the 28th of this month (February)
This past month has been horrible.
All of the sudden he is angry at me for everything. And I mean my very existence in his life makes him angry.
Things like calling to say goodnight, he thinks I’m checking up on him,
Putting a bowl away in the wrong place, makes me disrespectful.

I was having a trouble with my boss, who happens to be his mother, he was helping both of us cope with the defining lines in the working relationship and then gets mad at me like he’s piggy backing me and how I am not cooperating and basically put the whole issue on me.

Me and him have had the same argument many times. He always thinks I’m Naive or depend on him. Can’t live without him. He thinks he’s responsible for my happieness. etc

Just this last Tues he invited me to hang out with a group of mutual friends. (Well call this the JLo’s)
He had left to go play the drums at another friends house (Well call him Mac) and was going to come back.
Me and Jlo’s were hungry and thinking about ordering a pizza, so I called my boyfriend to see what he wanted to eat. After I got his order he said he was on his way back and was leaving Mac’s (who lives down the street from his house), and was going home to change real quick.

Well 45 minutes later everyone was asking me where my Boyfriend was, so I texted him. (Now the Jlo’s house and my boyfriends house is literally a 3 minute drive at the most)
He never responded I waited 10 minutes and called him, he picked up and said im outside right now ill be there in a second.

He came in and was acting funny to me. I had one of my best friend 9 month old baby sleeping on me and I was playing a game on my cell phone and my boyfriend asked me what I was doing “I said playing a game” he told me “Your boring”. I let this slide bc I wasn’t about to act like a 10 year old.

Later on in the night we were going to take the party to another persons house. I had been talking to one of the girls that lives there all night about it.
My boyfriend decided he wanted to go and came up to me to tell me he was going to go up ti the other party and I said cool I’ve been talking to so and so about it but I cant stay the night bc I have to work tomorrow so I’m going to drive. He basically got super upset at me and said he didn’t want me to go and that’s not what he was hinting at,

Well the night ended up this dramatic thing.
He says I’m ruining his last few days here
I’m smothering him
Basically me and my existence sucks

We haven’t spoken since.
We aren’t together anymore
I see him every day due to work.

Then yesterday he came in the office and ignored me
When he left he said a general goodbye to everyone. And I didn’t say anything back
He texted me saying “that goodbye was directed at you to”
I said “sorry….Bye, it just didn’t feel natural”

10 minutes later I called him thinking maybe he was ready to say sorry and talk about what happened but instead he cut me off and said that he didn’t want to talk, no conclusion was going to be made of it. He said he doesn’t like feeling angry
I just said ok well when you’re ready to talk you can call me.

And left it at that…

I didn’t want to say goodbye to him this way. He wanted me to come down and visit him in Costa Rica and talked so excited about keeping in touch with me and so on.
All the sudden it’s a complete 180, he doesn’t speak to me he’s angry at everything I do or say. And every time I’ve tried to conform to him and he just finds something else to attack at. AND it all is petty stuff. I just wanted to say goodbye on a happy note in the hopes that things will be comfortable when he gets back and while he’s gone and just all these things.
I don’t care that we broke up. It was going to happen anyways in a week and I was prepared for it. It just hurts that he’s choosing to make things this way.

I planned a huge goodbye party for him tomorrow and everyone tells me to go anyways, and to say goodbye to him the way I wanted to and let him be the way he wants.
I feel like he is trying to push me away. And when we had are big blow up I mentioned it to him because I can’t find any other reason for him to be angry at me all the time.
He just said ”you just ma
de the assumption that I’m pushing you away for my trip. You have no f-ing clue what I’m doing”….what does that mean??he says we have been fighting to much recently. But I’m not fighting him. Or angry at him for anything. I’ve been understanding and composed myself the best possible but this is just tearing me apart. Why could he have been happy this last month and just said a nice goodbye

Ryan asked:

I want to start off by setting the scene a little bit.

There’s a girl that I’ve been friends with for a while. Any time she has had problems with her boyfriend she would come to me for help. Her boyfriend just went on a trip to Peru for school and she believes that he has cheated on her. On facebook he forgot to close a chat conversation with his friend that says he’s going to be in big trouble when he gets home because he made a mistake, and his friend asked for at least the girl’s name, and the boyfriend provided some peruvian name.

Idk, I’m pretty good with talking to girls and giving love advice in general and that’s what it started out as. She asked me to pinky swear (lol) that I would help her through this. He is still in Peru, and her and I hang out frequently. When we do, we get really close, we hug, watch the stars on the roof of my car, I play with her hair/stomach/ears, we lick each other for laughs hahah, cuddle, swap gum without using hands (some lip touching involved), but I make sure that we don’t do anything “official” like kissing or go beyond that.

My question is this: What do I do? The first night we hung out, I felt really good, just cause it seemed like she liked me. She made it apparent that she wasn’t doing this to get back at her boyfriend and that, in her mind, they were pretty much over. BUT, her boyfriend and I are pretty good friends, and I love the dude – he’s my homie. Now, after a couple more nights have past I feel really bad, like I’m doing something wrong. I wouldn’t date this girl, because she’s emotionally unstable.. but she’s cute and perrtty, and in these moments my emotions are flaring (obviously). If her “boyfriend” wasn’t in the picture, I would have kissed her by now and seen where that would’ve gone.

So.. I won’t date this girl and I feel bad for doing what I’m doing now because I’m friends with her “boyfriend” – I have no reason for getting close to her except for the fact that it feels good, I’m slightly attracted to her, and he’s a cool girl. She also told one of my friends that if she hadn’t met her boyfriend, she would consider dating me. eeek :\ I talked to her about this and she said she doesn’t regret what we’re doing and she doesn’t see anything wrong with it.. but I do.

What do I do? I feel like an ***, but I also enjoy the closeness and the emotional high.. but I guess who wouldn’t?

Two quotes have been resonating throughout these past few days.
“To deny our instincts is to deny the very thing that makes us human.” – The Matrix
“I can resist anything but temptation” – Oscar Wilde

That’s such an apathetic, hands-off point of view though with complete disregard for your actions. BAH.

BLESS YOU if you were able to read through this entire thing, lol.