Now, I’ve just started working at a small business that is owned by my parents about 2 months ago, and I only go about 3 times a week. So the same day I started working there it was also this new girl’s first day. at first I couldn’t tell if she was interested, but now I think she’s pretty interested. How do I know?
She seems to enjoy talking to me whenever I talk to her. Also, I saw her yesterday after a week of not seeing her because I’ve been absent from work and she got a big smile on her face when I showed up yesterday after a week and looked right at me and greeted me as I was walking in to work even though she was talking to a client. She usually just finishes what she does, with me walking right past her when I go in for work, and greets me after I greet her.
Also, I asked her yesterday morning how her thanksgiving went and she briefly said “just fine thanks” and that was it. Then about a few hours later after my mom (who is her boss) left for the restroom, she asked how my Thanksgiving went. Then she gleefully told me how she went to a Peruvian restaurant for the first time this past weekend (my parents are from Peru, which she knows, and she’s Mexican) and how she tried lots of different foods for the first time and liked it. But she just stopped talking right when my mom walked in.
I’ve thought about asking her out for coffee but I can’t really do that because she takes her break in the break room which is right next door to my mom’s office and she definitely does not want my mom to see/hear us talking. She has demonstrated this every time we’re having a conversation and she just abruptly stops talking if my mom walks in the room. But she’ll talk to me if my mom steps out for the restroom or something.
Now I’ve never dated someone from work, let alone at where I work now since my mom is usually present. So my question are: how do I ask her out and do I tell my mom? She is 20 and I’m 22 if that helps.
Oh, and I sometimes see her on Saturdays( my mom always stays home on the weekends) to do some work. Would a Saturday be a good time to ask her out?