Hello everyone!
First of all sorry about my bad English, I’m originally from Peru.
I’m a 20 years old (I just turned 20 on October) boy with a physical disability, I use a wheelchair most of the time but I’m able to move and feel my entry body. I have a genetic disorder called “Osteogenesis Imperfecta” that makes my bones weak. I just wanted to mention this so you can consider this information when you want to give a reply.
I really don’t want to make this too long but I need to give details about what happened and I will thank you if you take a minute of your time to read my problem.
I graduated from High School few months ago and I started College three months ago, next week will be my second semester in College. My story begins when I met a 21 years Lithuanian girl at College when I was taking my first semester, everything started to fast and after three weeks we “fall in love”. This girl moved to America with her family six months ago.
Note: This girl doesn’t have any physical disability.
I wasn’t able to see her too often as I would like to because I can’t drive yet and also because she lives a bit far away from me (30 minutes). At College we were able to see each other more often but after the first semester I was only able to see her two times a week. We shared many beautiful things; we spent time together at the Mall or my house. We also spent a really good time in Christmas but somehow we stop to text or call each other, I was waiting for her to call and she was waiting for me to call too.
On New Year’s night I was invited to a party and I texted her to see if she would like to come with me because sometimes she need to work until late, so she said she have to work until late. I went to the party and I was drinking some beers and one of my friends (a guy) texted her saying “He is busy now, who are you?”. She thought it was a girl and she begin to think I found somebody else, from that night she started to ignore me or treat me differently, she won’t pick up the phone or text me back so I went to her job (a liquor store) and tried to speak to her but she was mad at me, she even asked me for my ID to enter the place and in front of everyone she told me that our relationship was over.
After she asked me for my ID at her job I was upset so I told my friends to go to a party and she heard me, inside the car I decided to go home and not go to any party. Two days after this incident I was using the Internet and she texted me saying that she can’t be with me anymore because she doesn’t trust me anymore and she also said that, the first night I went to her job she went to a party after and kissed a guy and was almost to makeup with him. When she said this, she really hurt me, I don’t know what to do… today I went to her job with my mom and the guy who texted her so she can listen and see that I never cheat on her, I went to her job today to know the true if she really did this to me or if she was just mad at me and want to hurt me. She confessed that she really kissed another guy at the party and was about to makeup.
The guy who texted her from my phone confessed the true and now she knows the true, now she knows that I never cheat on her no even a kiss with another girl but I don’t know if I should continue with her? I feel I love her but I don’t know I could handle this, I don’t know if I will be “Ok” to see her next time and remember about what happened. Now I really feel embarrass, some of my friends know what that she cheat on my and I don’t know if I should give her another chance or just end this now.
I will appreciate your answers.
I just wanted to mention that this girl said that she cheated on me because she was also hurt by thinking that i found somebody else. I really think this girl has some personal issues.
What do you guys think?