Hi all
Really need some advice. My fiance and the father of my 4 year old has gone off with another woman. He has played with us emotionally, he has been violent towards us, he takes cocaine, drinks out of control etc etc. He has moved out, but only 300 meters away from me, and I have to see him with his new woman regulalry. Our son is getting very upset too – he has no contact with our 4 year old, due to his drug problems, leaving the children on their own etc etc. Claims he is chaning for new woman, but he has been like this for so long, I do doubt that.
Anyway, to the point – I actually got him where he is now – He was nothing when we met – I did his CV for him, helped him with all his interviews (admittedly I didn’t go to the interviews, he did do that bit himself)!! – but recently he got promoted and thats when our probs really started, as he had to be away from home alot. I am left with no money, no fiance, and children and a mortgage to pay for, I want him to pay for what he has done – if he loses his job, he will more than likely move away. He was sentenced to 25 years in jail in Peru when he was 25, 9 years ago now – but he only served 5 years, as his Dad managed to get him out – It was for smuggling cocaine. Can I somehow use the drugs and hte charges against him to get him away from me and stop him ruining the rest of my life. It is kind of revenge, but he has ****** me dry, I am not coping with things at all. He works for a large org in the UK.
Any advice??