Well when i was 15 i felt in love with guy taht happend to be my neighboor in South America, he was also my cousin’s friend.. since i was even younger than that i jad a crush on him but it was osmething insignificant ..u know kids stuff..he was older than men for 3 years..when I turn 15-16 I flu to Peru because my grandpa had passed away and so i saw him again without any intention of having anythign at all with him or anyone..but it only took for us to talk and looked at each other to make it happend..he was attracted to me and i was attracted to him, however i was already living int he united states and he was dating a friend of mine from school.. she was crazy about him. one day during that visit in Peru he called my cousin and asked him to pass the phone to me and thats where everything started..he asked to meet me around my house and i was nervous but exicted about it so i went and met with him..he told me that he felt so attracted to me and that he loved my attitud etc bla bla..i count believe it ..but he asked me to be his girl..wihtout even thinking about the fact that he was with my friend or the fact that i was just there to visit i accepted..(this was my first boyfriend)..we used to hide to see each other because althougth we didnt tell anyone people realized our looks when we were close to each other and my parents didnt wanted me to be with a guys like him ( a kid with no job .going to school whenever he felt like it etcc.) I didnt care i was in love ! ..the day before going back to USA..my friend understood that what we felt for each other was so strong that she had nothing to do there..so she backed up. I left to USA heart broken ..we kept in contact thrue phone and letters…Many phone calls!! and tons of letters!! emails!!! etc ..when my father realized that i was talking to him he started to leave me in USA when going to Peru…that was the worst to me.or if he took me it was a mission impossible to see him ..i had to scape from aunt houses or auncles houses just to be at least with him for a minute.., this situation kept going for 3 years..and we still felt the same for each other..untill i was finally 18 and we decided to get married ..for that i had to travel to USA to Peru …so my father decided to have a trip over there ..ithougth to my self this will be my chance and only oportuniy to do this., so i went with my dad to peru …and a day before leaving my house over there..a friend of the family calls me and invites me to her house i accepted..i got to her house and she starts talking to me about this boy..telling me ..”u look so in love with him…but i have to tell you this..when u come from usa he acts like one person..stays home and thats it…but when ur here he cheats on you with ur friend “they still together” plus she is pregnant and there is no doubt that he is the father of the baby” … I let her talked and when she finished i just got up and asked her is this all true …she replied” yes it is”…I walked out of her house with a Pain that up to now i havent felt in my life …wanting to cry so much but i didnt i kept it to myself…so i called him when i got hom and asked him to meet me..when i saw him and tlloked at him onthe eyes. I said” please just tell me truth …and i told him everything that this lady told me..” he looked at me and said nooo are u crazy ….etc.., although i wanted to believe him ..i was just so hurt that I only knew i didnt wanted to feel that way again in my life and i was afarid to say okay i believe you…when i got home that night i was wanted to be back in USA and forget about all this…! later on I met a guy in USA that i knew from hight school and although i was never in love with him but liked him a lil i married him and untill this point i leave with him.. no kids..however about 2 months ago . talking to my cousin in Peru he tell methat he had something to confess to me ..well he tell me that my father paid this lady to tell me these things..they were not true..and yes my friend was pregnant but it was from a guy she was going out with ..not my bf.. untill now i still talk to him on the phone ..and he asks me to go back to him to get married ..i do like him a lot still ..and never been in love again since then.. but at the same time i have a family here which is my husband.. i dont know what to do ! i really dont ..i know that this is just a site to communicate and not to make decisions this big in life ..but i would like to know what you think…thank u for taking the time to read my story .