Comments on: Why do people think its “weird” not to want kids?

By: "Thé Ro Dudé."

"Thé Ro Dudé." — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 21:33:02 +0000

falk the stupid birch above me. i think its a great idea, get a hysterectomy (get fixed) at a young age and take in all that sweet money and go on vacation with your love right away!

p.s to the arss above me, i would really **** to see any children with those traits of yours, you should get fixed too before you poison the world with your horrible genes.

By: ♥єђmαgαฬ∂

♥єђmαgαฬ∂ — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 08:47:59 +0000

get real
everybody says that and 16 years later oooh! look a baby
I bet your mom will win the bet.
she will

By: Marlana D

Marlana D — Sun, 24 Jan 2010 02:56:10 +0000

I feel exactly the same way! And so does my fiance of 5 years (not getting married until we graduate college and can save up enough money for the perfect wedding we have always dreamed of). Yes thats right i found a guy who doesn’t want children as much as me. If i can do it you can do it too! There is a child free man out there somewhere for you. Not all guys want to buy minivans, change diapers, wake up at all hours of the night for a screaming kid, loss of privacy, deal with a pregnant hormonal woman, see annoying kids toys all over the house, potty train, ABC’s, getting kids ready for school, deal with school functions, sleepovers, crying, tantrums…you get the idea.

I know you don’t want kids but you also don’t want to travel alone. I doubt it would come to that, but i would rather travel alone than never get to travel! It would be so much worse being stuck in the house with 2 annoying kids waiting for relief when dad gets home and even then they swarm him.

Its not strange at all to not want to go through what people say is the worse pain imaginable. Plus it does a number on the under carriage (or so some husbands and boyfriends have told me) I want my life to be full of fun, pleasure, privacy, relaxation, and adventures. I want to avoid as much pain and discomfort as humanly possible, and i will. so will you if you really want it

By: marvelousmaiden

marvelousmaiden — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 19:20:14 +0000

i’m 36 and i won’t be having any.most people are lousy parents that end up with savages for offspring.cats are better!!!

By: Anlie V

Anlie V — Wed, 20 Jan 2010 14:23:15 +0000

ok ppl think its weird b/c kids are a presious gift from above and there so cute and stuff
but heres the reality kids are a handful and they cost alot of money dont get me wrong they are great but u have to b patient and all that
and heres an idea if u dont want to b alone on ur travels get a boyfriend (they are so much less money) lol
also not all guys want kids just a healthy relationship with someone some cant even have kids so dont worry

By: Jess

Jess — Mon, 18 Jan 2010 02:06:22 +0000

I feel 100% the same way! I want to go to Egypt and discover some tomb or see the ancient Mayan ruins. Why would anyone choose kids over that? Why would you want little kids with you everywhere giving you headaches? Maybe people think it’s weird because some people are born with a motherly instinct or something. You know how you get that feeling that some people would make wonderful mothers and fathers, maybe some people don’t have this. For example. you and me.

By: pirate_luv77

pirate_luv77 — Fri, 15 Jan 2010 11:30:25 +0000

who cares you may or may change your mind and that isnt really isnt true. so thats just your friends maybe you should get new ones jkjkthats just what you think its not weird.

By: razo

razo — Wed, 13 Jan 2010 08:57:18 +0000

when you put it that way then S*it I’m never having kids either!! i think that people have this maternal instinct and a lot of girls grow up playing with dolls pretending that they are real. some people i think never think of the option of Not having kids. I have thought about not having them as well but it scares me because it is such a normal thing to do. but what if i have them and have regrets-that would make me feel terrible. id love to want kids because i feel like i inevitably will one day and i want to want them. i think that your decision is fine, especially with your attitude towards it. if you dont want one, why would people want to push you in to it only to have you not like them?

By: Shanti

Shanti — Sun, 10 Jan 2010 07:05:28 +0000

I don’t want to have kids either. My mum says I will change. I love kids but I don’t think I could handle the responsibility. I have four pets and it’s hard to take care of them and still have a life.
It’s ok. Travel the world. Sounds like fun. I wish I could.

By: Peace a pie

Peace a pie — Thu, 07 Jan 2010 18:51:39 +0000

My sister said she never wanted kids, but when she married the right guy quickly changed her mind.

My mom has only one friend that never had any kids, but her husband left her and she didn’t think she could do it on her own. You know the working and raising at the same time. She also didn’t like kids a whole lot, but everybody tried to tell her that if it was her own child it would be a different thing.

That being said, it is a personal decision, and nobody can tell you whether or not to have kids. It’s really none of their business anyway.