There is no other or better way to write this question.
Here are the facts:
I am still living with my mother at 24 years. She divorced my dad back in ’89. She has been a cop for 10 years. She insults my dad, who never cheated on her. My dad has faults, but he is a fantastic father. She cheated on him.
I am also born with a physical disability if that has any affect on why she treats me like crap.
Growing up and now, she would always shut me out and ‘prefer’ my brother over things, even though he was a major problem child growing up. She always picks on me and uses me for her jokes whenever she is with friends or at a family gathering. She lets my brother shine while I am the ‘fall boy.’
I also have a sister (half sister, who is my mom and step dad’s (the guy with whom she cheated) daughter, who I love to death.
She would get really pissed off if I did something (like miss the bus by accident in high school). She never respected me and the choices I made (I went to Peru for a year. I am now fluent in Spanish and I plan to use that for a future job). She gets in rages and I can’t live in this house no more. I am a college senior and ready to graduate.
Is it me? Or is my mom crazy? I don’t buy the crap that some cops forget to switch off while they’re at home because she has always treated me this way, even before she became a cop.
For those of you who could understand what I wrote—-can you tell me what my situation is???
Thank you for your help