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how should i end my essay 10 points for best answer?

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JOJO[R.I.P MJ] asked:

Isabel Allende was born on August 2, 1942, in Lima, Peru. Her parents, Tomás and Francisca Allende divorced when she was only three. After the divorce Isabel traveled with her mother to Santiago, Chile, where she was raised in her grandparents’ home. Allende graduated from a private high school at the age of sixteen. Three years later, in 1962, she married her first husband, Miguel Frías, an engineer. Allende also went to work for the United Nations Food and Agricultural Organization in Santiago, where she was a secretary for several years. Later she became a journalist, editor, and advice columnist for Paula magazine. In addition she worked as a television interviewer and newscaster.

When her uncle, Chilean president Salvador Allende , was assassinated in 1973 as part of a military takeover of the government, Isabel Allende’s life changed greatly. At first she did not think that the new government would last, but later she realized that it was too dangerous to stay in Chile. So her husband, and their two children fled to Venezuela. Despite the fact she had established a successful career as a journalist in Chile, she had a difficult time finding similar work in Venezuela. During her life in exile Isabel was inspired to write her debut novel, The House of the Spirits , which became a best seller in Spain and West Germany. Based on Isabel’s memories of her family and the political change in her native country, the book describes the personal and political conflicts in the lives of several generations of a family in a Latin American country. These events are communicated through the memories of the novel’s three main characters: Esteban and Clara, the father and mother of the Trueba family, and Alba, their granddaughter who falls into the hands of torturers during a military takeover. The House of the Spirits earned the Quality Paperback Book Club New Voice Award nomination. The novel was adapted by the Danish writer and director Bille August and was released as a film in the United States in 1994. The House of Spirits was followed by Of Love and Shadows, which concerns the switching at birth of two infant girls. One of the babies grows up to become the focus of a journalist’s investigation, and the revelation of the woman’s assassination compels the reporter and her photographer to go into exile. The novel received a Los Angeles Times Book Prize nomination. While on a lecture tour in San Jose, California, to promote the publication of Of Love and Shadows in the United States, Allende met William Gordon, a lawyer, who was an admirer of her work . Having been divorced from her first husband for about a year, she married Gordon in 1988 and has lived with him in Marin, California, ever since.

As she became more popular, Allende decided to devote all of her time to writing and quit her job as a school administrator. Her next book, Eva Luna. The novel received positive reviews and was voted One of the Year’s Best Books by Library Journal. Allende followed up this novel with The Stories of Eva Lu. The Eva Luna stories were followed by The Infinite Plan. The Infinite Plan received less praise than Allende’s previous books. Still, as novelist Jane Smiley pointed out in her Boston Globe review, Not many authors from foreign countries have even attempted writing a novel from the point of view of a native of the new country. Allende’s next work, Paula , was a heartbreaking account of the circumstances surrounding the long illness and death of her daughter in 1991. Published in 1999 Daughter of Fortune is the story of Eliza Sommers, a girl who breaks with nineteenth-century Chilean tradition to follow her lover to California. In September 1996 Allende was honored at the Hispanic Heritage Awards for her contributions to the Hispanic American community. In 1998 she received the Dorothy and Lillian Gish Prize for excellence in the arts. Another novel, Portrait in Sepia, was published in 2001.

thats all i got i dont know how to end it

i am an aspiring young author who wrote a short story. please suggestions/comments?

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twilight forever asked:

September 3rd

My grandfather used to tell me that everyone had a story. Whether it was of a budding romance or the horrific tale of being in labor, everyone had one. I know I’m not the budding romance type and well, being pregnant at fourteen isn’t really my style, so I guess we’ll have to wait and see. Of course, he said all that before he died two years ago when my mom wouldn’t pay the hospital bills anymore. It happened the same way as when my pet guinea pig died, I came home from school and he was slumped on the couch, mouth open, eyes closed.
I guess I just want to escape reality for a second. Life in my house is anything but paradise and right now I’m feeling like a guinea pig, locked in a world with caged doors all around me.

September 7th

Ms. Smith next door bought me all my school supplies with the credit card. Sydney gave it to her before going to Peru with my dad last week for a three week cruise. Sydney’s my mom; my dad’s name is Bill. I guess it’s kind of weird that I don’t call them Mom and Dad, but when I was really little it was all nanny and none of them.
I don’t really mind, if they had been around to parent me I might be drunk, stupid, and bitchy, like them. I think I’m better off without them, not to sound like a brat or anything. Actually, I don’t really care if I sound like a brat or not, not when it comes to talking about Sydney and Bill. I’m just not going to get into that right now though; I don’t need that sort of stress.
I really needed some new clothes for this year, but there’s only one three hundred dollars left on the card for me to live with for two weeks and food in Westchester isn’t cheap.
Whatever, I’m going to go make sure that all of my books are in order for tomorrow, even though I’ve done so over four times today. I just want tomorrow to be a new year for me. This is a new chapter in the book that I call my life and I want it to have a successful beginning.

Yours until the Sun Stops Shining,
Kayla L. Jones

September 8th

I’m never going back. I know that I sound immature and stupid, but I don’t care. I don’t care one filthy, stinking bit. Now I must really sound immature and stupid, but after what I’ve been through today, I have just about had it with the whole rotten, fucked up world.
My morning started off normal. I woke up and got ready for school, throwing on the one new shirt that I bought a month ago with my lawn-mowing money. It’s probably because I’m the only girl in Westchester who would mow a lawn for twenty bucks. Actually, I don’t think that anyone here would do it for any amount of money, but that’s beside the point. It’s a sparkly black one with spaghetti straps that I bought at Westchester Mall.
I paired it with old jeans that I got when Sydney grew out of them, or rather lost twenty pounds on Jenny Craig in one week. The next time I want to be anorexic I’ll try it. So anyway, I made it to the bus stop before things started getting ugly. I’m talking hairy **** with a mole ugly.
I got on the bus and made the huge mistake of sitting in the back, where I was pretty sure I would go unnoticed. I might as well have put a sign saying “Seniors Kick Here” on my ****. Once they figured out I was a freshman, which they said was easy because of my too heavy make-up and chicken legs, I was toast. They made fun of me the whole way, even after I moved up front.
Then, when I finally made it to my first class, I found that every one of the popular kids from last year were in it, with some new ones that I could tell are going to get close with the old ones very soon.
In Art History we were shown all the work that her summer camp students had painted. Then she brought out one that she hadn’t finished. The paint was still wet so she warned us all to be careful not to bump into it when we left. Well guess who Natalie Shawnston just accidentally pushed into it? The teacher made me stay for three minutes and gave me a lecture on not being clumsy in the Art room. That and my new shirt was really badly stained with paint.
I was late to my next class because of staying late for Art and told not to make it a habit. Need I plead that several others walked in well through third, laughing and practically bouncing off the walls? They were just told to take their seats. Tell me where this was all written in the Constitution, where our rights as unlucky, disliked, loser kids were put. Tell me that and maybe I’ll get back to you.

Yours until the Sun Stops Shining,
Kayla L. Jones

September 21st

Sydney came home today without Bill. Turns out he had some urgent business trip to take care of, so he sent her back with her luggage and took the next plane to Cuba. Whatever his “business” is, I’m pretty sure it doesn’t have to do with the office, unless you count hooking up with one of his employees under his desk as “urgent business”.
Yeah, three summers ago there was no one to watch me and I was sick enough that my
i just realized that the whole story didn’t get pasted onto here… if u are interested in reading the rest, then i know it’s good! lol

Boyfriend and I in his room.july4th fun?

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cristie asked:

Get ready for a longggg reading. So, you don’t need to read it. Just wanting some opinions.
I asked another question about going to my boyfriends house on July4th. I was able to go.
Well…here is the story that happened the whole day.
First off his father and his Uncle came over to pick me up. Isaac(my boyfriend) and I was sitting in the back talking,holding hands. Trying to hide the fact that he and I are together. His uncle keeps turning around so we decided to stop holding hands and just act normal. We went to his aunt’s house because it was Isaac’s little cousin;s birthday:) she was turning 4. We went upstairs showed me around. He is so close to his cousin’s its so adorable :) he held Noah and Noah would cry when his mom tried to pick him up. Which is sad I know. But Isaac would make a wonderful dad one day :) no kidding.
His cousin Sophia? wanted to play barbie game on PS2. Et cetera. She left later..we were alone upstairs..and we made out for a few seconds. (First time for me making out..haha)
But at his house now…
he has a beautiful home..with stuff from Peru and everything. Its like a model home. No joke. We went to the garage to play Guitar Hero(don’t ask why in the garage) we sat on the hood of a old truck and played. We would make out here and there…for good luck ;)
Outside we played around chasing each other. What little kids do :) But we were laying in the grass. My arms started to itch.
>>>>>>FasFoward<<<<
To his room.

He closed the blinds so no one would see we are alone…we shut the door(there is no lock o.o) We sat by eachother on th bed..both of our feet on his skateboard..then.bam..next minute we are making out ********. I can't control my hormones somewhat so we were laying down next minute. Then the next one of Isaac's leg between my legs…I had a hand pushing his shirt up. Another pulling his hair. I felt Isaac pushing stuff off his bed. Et cetera..next I was on top of Isaac..bed moving. Isaac stood up tried to take my pants off. But I said no. He understood. We continued..Isaac was fully on top of me. Both our shirts pulled up..Isaac already had my bra cups folded(if that made sense) then he undid my bra and pushed it up. So no clothes were TECHNICALLY off. We got a little bit out of hand..him..you know. But no hands in my pants. But one in his..I know..to much information…. :/ sorry.
We kept going on and off because since we thought someone was in the hosue. I kept had to keep hiding in his closet hahaha.

Question is…did we make a mistake to be in his room..during fireworks. His whole family outside. Only Isaac and I inside…we know what we did was wrong..hormones got ahead of us..but good we didn't actually have *** right? Because I have a purity ring. Yet I really love Isaac.
Oh! I know this will make it harder to answer..I'm 14. Isaac is a year and month younger then me…………
Yes he and I know how important protection is. We weren't planning going ANY farther then that. Plus, we really don't want to have *** at such a young age. Even with raging hormones.

do u like my story?

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Sophia asked:

True Love
Once there was a young girl. Her name was Aldofina. She lived in Peru. One day she was out for a walk when she ran in to a very handsome young man, they’re eyes met. He was the first to speak. He said how sorry he was for running in to her, he asked what her name was and she told him. He said that his name was Diego. They started walking and while they walked they found out how much they had in common. They walked for hours. They were having so much fun that they forgot what time it was and Aldofina said good bye to Diego. They arranged a time when they could see each other again. As Aldofina walked home she was thinking about how much fun she had. She was so caught up in her thoughts that she didn’t know where she was. Suddenly, she heard a noise behind her, she looked, she saw nothing so she turned around and started running. She ran faster and faster, she was so scared then finally she saw lights so she ran for them. She finally reached town and she ran all the way home.
When she got home she told her mom about everything that had happened to her. Then she went to her room and talked to her little sister, Carmen, who’s 12, everything about Diego. Carmen was so excited for her sister. Just then their little sister and brother ran in. They’re names are Dominga and Domingo and they are twins. They are 6 years old. They wanted to hear what happened too. As she was telling the story they all fell asleep. The next day Aldofina went to see her best friend, Ofelia, she also told her about Diego. Then she told her that she had to go and meet Diego again. Since she was late she ran to where she was supposed to meet him. When she got there he was waiting. He greeted her with a “Hello Aldofina” Aldofina said “Hey Diego” and they started walking together. As they walked they found a little kitten. They named her Bama. They carried the kitten and said that they would keep her forever. As they were walking they talked some more. They watched the sun set and while
they were watching it Diego leaned over and kissed her. It was the most passionate kiss ever. After that he walked her home and she introduced him to her family. A couple months later he asked her to marry him and she said yes. They got married and had four darling children, two boys and two girls. Their names were Capac, Huayna, Valentina, and Ximena. They all lived happily ever after.

The End

Where can I submit formal complaints aganist Canada Customs?

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g r asked:

I’m a young guy and I got a new wife and baby in peru, and i do a lot of living there… and everytime I come back to Canada I go up to the counter at the airport to the scary looking people in those futuristic soldier outfits and give my declaration and passport then they they ask me some questions and i answer honestly and then they give back my declaration card with big red marker all over it. then i go to another, closed off place where someone pathetic creature interrogrates me inspects everything I have for an hour. They unfairly single me and savagely violate and invade me all the time. This gives me lots of stress all the time. I forgot my $500 new camera on the plane because of the stress and impending doom id soon be facing. and i never got it back. They asked me personal questions, where I met my wife and when and I told them and they wrote everything down and saved it. Are they allowed to keep this kind of extremely personal file on me? Are they even allowed to ask me???

When I was waiting there to be inspected I saw an almost 7 foot customs man who looks more like a criminal yelling full force in english at a small, old peruvian lady who didn’t speak english. it was the most disturbing and disgusting thing ive ever witnessed. i could see the total confusion and frighting look in her. she was almost crying. what could this harmless human being have done wrong? her only mistake was coming to canada it seems.

i want to make formal complaints because i am sick of this brutality and treatment and invasion of privacy. i don’t want to have a red marker on my paper again! how can i make sure of that? i would so like to enjoy a time when i could safetly and soundly come back to my home country. this makes me want to stay away from canada. and now i tell my peruvian friends and family that the canadian government is bad and mean. and we look at places in europe instead.

love confusion. I desperately need your thoughts on this?

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Kat asked:

here’s the situation… i met my bf about a yr 1/2 ago in peru… about a week after we met i told myself that this was the guy i was going to marry (God knows why) without saying anything to anyone, i later find out from my mom that before she married my dad, when she first saw him, she had a vision that she was going to marry him… i thought it was really freaky when she told me this… the thing is, i just got back from living with him for 6 months and one day, i got really scared bc i felt like he wasn’t really the one for me… that same day i was sitting outside our apt. and this old lady (who owned the building) asked me if i was ok… i said i was fine and she asked me if i was here with my family… i said no i live with my bf… and she asked who it was and i told her his name… and she said he’s a great guy… after that, i felt fine… and i felt like that was a sign… well as time went on, we fought a lot, had a lot of trust issues…. we fought so bad once that i thought i was going to go home sooner…. but i just begged him to stay with me… i really didn’t want to leave him… the reason i am confused out of my mind is bc we are 2 completely different people… but at the same time i just feel like there is always something keeping us together… i feel like i’m battling with what i want and fate… (i don’t know what i want) maybe we are meant to be… who knows…… please give me your thoughts on this, thanks!

can you help me better understand this article like summarizing it in words i know?

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~~xx{Stelth[k9]}xx~~ asked:

WASHINGTON — With oil prices in record territory, presidential candidates stumping for votes in corn-centric Iowa, and congressional Democrats anxious to pass an energy bill to cut the nation’s dependence on Mideast oil, this should be the right moment for ethanol.

But a plan to dramatically increase ethanol production has become a major sticking point in congressional negotiations to complete work on the bill. And it has created a challenge for House Speaker Nancy Pelosi, whose Democratic caucus has split over the issue.

Pro-ethanol Democrats and farm groups want the bill to require a nearly fivefold increase by 2022 in the amount of home-grown alternative fuels that must be blended into gasoline. They say the mandate would reduce U.S. dependence on foreign oil and help America’s farmers.

Democrats on the other side, joined by environmental and food-industry groups, think the mandate could raise the price of corn used for food; harm the environment by using more land to produce biofuels; and gouge taxpayers by expanding ethanol subsidies.

Because of the provision’s popularity among farm-state lawmakers from both parties, it is seen as the glue holding together an energy bill that is expected to include the first significant increase in vehicle fuel-economy rules in decades.

And it might be enough to coax a signature from President Bush, who has made reducing reliance on foreign energy sources a priority.

“All along, energy-bill watchers have believed that the renewable-fuel standard was going to carry the entire bill,” said Bill Wicker, a spokesman for Senate Energy and Natural Resources Committee Chairman Jeff Bingaman (D-N.M.). “It’s just very popular.”

The sense of political urgency for Pelosi to work out a compromise has risen along with prices at the pump.

“How she marries these various interests is really a challenge,” said Sierra Club lobbyist Melinda Pierce. “The Democratic Party pie gets sliced differently every time, but it’s the leader’s job to figure out how to put it all together.” House Democratic leaders want to vote on the bill next week, as soon as Congress returns from its recess.

Ethanol has been hotly debated since 1978, when Congress approved a tax break for the fuel. It has long been a key topic on the presidential campaign trail through the Corn Belt — especially in Iowa, which is first in the nation in ethanol production and in voting on presidential nominees.

In 2005, when it drafted the last energy bill, Congress decided to require that 7.5 billion gallons of ethanol be added annually to U.S. gasoline supplies by 2012, an amount expected to be reached soon. California uses about a billion gallons of ethanol.

At the heart of this year’s dispute on Capitol Hill is the Senate bill’s renewable fuel standard, which would mandate 36 billion gallons of alternative fuels by 2022 — up to 15 billion from corn-based ethanol. After 2016, an increasing portion would have to be advanced biofuels, including cellulosic ethanol produced from plant materials, such as switch grass and wood chips, thought to be easier on the environment than corn-based ethanol.

The House version of the bill includes no such mandate. Instead, it offers tax incentives to promote research on cellulosic ethanol. A Pelosi spokesman said the San Francisco Democrat wanted an expansion of the renewable fuel standard that would include “a significant boost to the cellulosic ethanol industry.”

Rep. Henry A. Waxman of Beverly Hills is one of the many Democrats critical of the proposed standard. “It certainly would enrich the corn lobby, but it doesn’t offer the country the sustainable energy future that we need,” he said. “Congress just gave the corn-based ethanol industry everything it wanted two years ago.”

But Matt Hartwig of the Renewable Fuels Assn., a Washington-based trade group, says what is at stake is energy security. “This isn’t about giving the ethanol industry or any other energy industry what it wants. It is about making a choice as to our nation’s energy future,” he said.

The fight has scrambled the usual alliances. The National Cattlemen’s Beef Assn. and the National Corn Growers Assn., allies in the recent fight to win House approval of a trade agreement with Peru, are on opposite sides of the battle over ethanol. Republicans are divided on the issue too, with some lawmakers from oil-producing states opposing the mandate, and others from corn-growing states supporting it.

Environmental groups, which support alternative fuels, want to ensure that stepped-up production does not damage the environment. They worry about more pollution from fertilizers and pesticides, and the conversion of grasslands and wildlife habitats to farmland.

“We are strong proponents of biofuels,” said Jim Presswood, an energy expert at the Natural Resources Defense Council. “We think they’re a critical piece of solving global warming and reducing oil dependence. We just want to make sure they’re done right.”

Forty-six Democrats, including several Californians, recently wrote congressional leaders to express similar concerns: “Rapid expansion of ethanol made from corn and other food crops has also created new unforeseeable challenges, including rising food prices, rising animal feed prices, heightened competition for water, water pollution, and the loss of grasslands and other valuable wildlife habitats.”

The Senate measure included a requirement that the process used to create any new biofuel emit 20% less greenhouse gas than the production of gasoline, but environmentalists say the measure might not account for all of the potential environmental effects.

Rainforest Action Network, Friends of the Earth and other environmental groups recently wrote the House speaker urging her to reject the fuel mandate. The groups asserted that the measure could lead to the clearing of Indonesian rain forests for palm oil plantations.

Democrats have also written to congressional leaders to say the country would benefit far more from biofuels made from nonfood sources. That would do more, they said, to reduce greenhouse gas emissions without reducing the availability — or increasing the price — of corn used for animal feed.

About 24% of the nation’s corn is expected to go to ethanol production this year, up from 13% in 2004, before Congress enacted the ethanol mandate.

Even though corn production has increased, corn prices have shot up. A bushel sold for about $3.50 last week, up from about $2 two years ago.

Food industry groups recently wrote lawmakers to complain that diverting corn from food to fuel “strains the supply for the commodity and increases prices for all users.”

“The only winner of the renewable fuel standard has been corn farmers,” said Scott Faber, vice president of federal affairs for the Grocery Manufacturers Assn. “Clearly, the losers have been moms who are having to pay more for the price of milk, meat and other basic staples at the supermarket.”

Ethanol proponents, who say critics have exaggerated the problems, contend that the ethanol mandate’s effect on food prices would be negligible, perhaps no more than 0.2%. “We see a greater effect than that from a hard freeze in California,” the National Corn Growers Assn. and other proponents recently wrote in a letter to lawmakers.

Lawmakers who support a mandate for increased production of domestically produced alternative fuel also emphasize a need to wean the U.S. from imports. “Sure, there are environmental considerations, but there are also national security considerations,” said Wicker, Sen. Bingaman’s spokesman. “A lot of people who are supporting renewable fuels are doing it partly because they want to displace oil imported from parts of the world where they **** us.”

Jon Doggett, vice president of public policy for the National Corn Growers Assn., said corn growers would be stepping up efforts to win passage of the renewable fuel standard as lawmakers visited their districts during the two-week Thanksgiving recess.

“Gas is over $3,” he said, “and there’s a lot of constituents who are going to want to know what they’re going to do about it.”

I’m a handicap person, should I continue with my ex-girlfriend after she cheated on me?

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Anonymous Writer asked:

Hello everyone!

First of all sorry about my bad English, I’m originally from Peru.

I’m a 20 years old (I just turned 20 on October) boy with a physical disability, I use a wheelchair most of the time but I’m able to move and feel my entry body. I have a genetic disorder called “Osteogenesis Imperfecta” that makes my bones weak. I just wanted to mention this so you can consider this information when you want to give a reply.

I really don’t want to make this too long but I need to give details about what happened and I will thank you if you take a minute of your time to read my problem.

I graduated from High School few months ago and I started College three months ago, next week will be my second semester in College. My story begins when I met a 21 years Lithuanian girl at College when I was taking my first semester, everything started to fast and after three weeks we “fall in love”. This girl moved to America with her family six months ago.

Note: This girl doesn’t have any physical disability.

I wasn’t able to see her too often as I would like to because I can’t drive yet and also because she lives a bit far away from me (30 minutes). At College we were able to see each other more often but after the first semester I was only able to see her two times a week. We shared many beautiful things; we spent time together at the Mall or my house. We also spent a really good time in Christmas but somehow we stop to text or call each other, I was waiting for her to call and she was waiting for me to call too.

On New Year’s night I was invited to a party and I texted her to see if she would like to come with me because sometimes she need to work until late, so she said she have to work until late. I went to the party and I was drinking some beers and one of my friends (a guy) texted her saying “He is busy now, who are you?”. She thought it was a girl and she begin to think I found somebody else, from that night she started to ignore me or treat me differently, she won’t pick up the phone or text me back so I went to her job (a liquor store) and tried to speak to her but she was mad at me, she even asked me for my ID to enter the place and in front of everyone she told me that our relationship was over.

After she asked me for my ID at her job I was upset so I told my friends to go to a party and she heard me, inside the car I decided to go home and not go to any party. Two days after this incident I was using the Internet and she texted me saying that she can’t be with me anymore because she doesn’t trust me anymore and she also said that, the first night I went to her job she went to a party after and kissed a guy and was almost to makeup with him. When she said this, she really hurt me, I don’t know what to do… today I went to her job with my mom and the guy who texted her so she can listen and see that I never cheat on her, I went to her job today to know the true if she really did this to me or if she was just mad at me and want to hurt me. She confessed that she really kissed another guy at the party and was about to makeup.

The guy who texted her from my phone confessed the true and now she knows the true, now she knows that I never cheat on her no even a kiss with another girl but I don’t know if I should continue with her? I feel I love her but I don’t know I could handle this, I don’t know if I will be “Ok” to see her next time and remember about what happened. Now I really feel embarrass, some of my friends know what that she cheat on my and I don’t know if I should give her another chance or just end this now.

I will appreciate your answers.
I just wanted to mention that this girl said that she cheated on me because she was also hurt by thinking that i found somebody else. I really think this girl has some personal issues.

What do you guys think?

Why does my mom **** me?

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Jason F asked:

There is no other or better way to write this question.

Here are the facts:
I am still living with my mother at 24 years. She divorced my dad back in ‘89. She has been a cop for 10 years. She insults my dad, who never cheated on her. My dad has faults, but he is a fantastic father. She cheated on him.

I am also born with a physical disability if that has any affect on why she treats me like crap.

Growing up and now, she would always shut me out and ‘prefer’ my brother over things, even though he was a major problem child growing up. She always picks on me and uses me for her jokes whenever she is with friends or at a family gathering. She lets my brother shine while I am the ‘fall boy.’

I also have a sister (half sister, who is my mom and step dad’s (the guy with whom she cheated) daughter, who I love to death.

She would get really pissed off if I did something (like miss the bus by accident in high school). She never respected me and the choices I made (I went to Peru for a year. I am now fluent in Spanish and I plan to use that for a future job). She gets in rages and I can’t live in this house no more. I am a college senior and ready to graduate.

Is it me? Or is my mom crazy? I don’t buy the crap that some cops forget to switch off while they’re at home because she has always treated me this way, even before she became a cop.

For those of you who could understand what I wrote—-can you tell me what my situation is???

Thank you for your help

i dont know what is right?

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Jessica S asked:

well, here goes. at sixteen, i was in a terrible relationship with an 18 year old boy. he was terribly jealous and controlling. we lived with my mother who was in an abusive relationship with some redneck, and they were using meth. due to my own inability to say no, i became pregnant. mom and bf got in a fight, and he was kicked out. i was upset too, and i went to stay with my sister and her child and husband for a month or so. i broke up with bf, thank god. mom still did not know that i was pregnant, but my sister did know. i ended up meeting a wonderful man that my sister worked with, a 26 year old peruvian man. he was not like the guys i had known. we became involved and soon i returned to my mothers and we stayed together. well, he was an illegal. we moved in together and he became daddy to my beautiful little girl. my ex sent letters but never offered to help, so i did not speak to him.

the following year, when my child was around nine months old, the peruvian man was deported. i joined him in peru and have now been in peru for ayear and three months, while we wait for paperwork to decide whether he can return or not. i have decided to return home, no matter what, and am considering doing it now. the problem is, my daugther is two and a half, and he is her daddy, and they love each other. and my mom says she is not doing drugs, but she is still occasionally seeing the abusive man. i would have to stay with my mom if i return. well, basically, i am sad and upset and dont know what to do. i am nineteen.

well peru is alright, though dangerous. i do not want to stay here forever. i have been waiting on pins and needles for three months waiting to get an answer, and now i have to wait more. our relationship is deteriorating due to stress. i want to go home but if the paperwork came soon, like in two weeks, i would be fine.
the abusive man has never been anything but cordial to me. his abuse to my mother has been pulling her hair, flinging her around, and once banging her head on a wall. but they are not living together, they have a court order not to be together, if seen together they will both go to jail. she sneaks out to see him see him sometimes, she says.
me and the peruvian man have been together for three years, and it has been great, for the most part, not counting all the stress from deportation and now the waiting in limbo. i love him and he loves me and my daughter especially.